The goal of this lifestyle is not to achieve a specific BMI. The goal is to reduce suffering and increase quality of life .
Stop waiting until you lose 10 pounds to buy jeans that fit. That is an act of violence against your present self. Wear the swimsuit. Cut out the tags that itch. Wear bright colors if you want. Clothing is for protection and expression, not for hiding. When you feel comfortable in your clothes, you move more and stress less.
: Appreciate your body for its abilities, like walking, breathing, or even the way it heals itself.