Tsuma Ni Dammatte Sokubaikai
(妻に黙って即売会) translates to "going to an independent creator sales event (like Comiket or a doujinshi fair) without telling my wife" [2].
Marriage. Children. A mortgage. A haken (contract) job or a mid-level salaryman position. In many Japanese households, the wife takes control of the family finances. Discretionary spending for "hobbies" is often limited—and doujinshi (especially R-18 material) does not always qualify as a respectable expense. tsuma ni dammatte sokubaikai
Then life happened.
Ensure messaging apps (like Line or Discord) do not preview messages from your hobby friends on your lock screen. 3. The Logistics of Loot tsuma ni dammatte sokubaikai